Most of Us Are Searching
BEING HUMAN is HARD, at least parts of it are for most of us.
It’s complex. It’s messy. Most of us are SEARCHING.
Deep down, we want Better Selves, Better Lives, and a Better World.
But, we don’t always know what will move us in that direction.
Part of the human, the hero’s, and especially the REBEL SOUL’s journey is to try and learn, including from what doesn’t work, and try again, and again. UNTIL.
UNTIL we learn to search from the right place inside us.
UNTIL we learn to go in the right direction.
UNTIL we learn the right way to get ourselves there.
Its POSSIBLE, even PROBABLE to:
- Grow, Recover, Learn, Change, Transform and Move into Higher Operating Places.
- Create Better Selves, Better Lives and contribute to a Better World.
The Purpose of SOULCHANGE is to support the brave, beautiful, blessed (and sometimes bewildering and broken-hearted) SEARCH toward Better Selves, Better Lives, and a Better World.
We aim to inspire, inform, and guide growth, recovery, learning, and transformation with a blog and various soulutions (downloadables and future e-courses).
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If you want to jump in and get started, here’s the latest from the BLOG.
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Every post is focused on some small part of the SEARCH for Better Selves, Better Lives, and a Better World.
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Reasons to SEARCH
SEARCHING is not an easy thing to do. Neither is transforming ourselves.
Many of us keep circling at the same level of functioning, repeating things with a little variation from year to year, because change seems too hard or we don’t even believe its possible.
Just consider the ramifications of staying the same, compared with the rewards for SEARCHING, growing, and learning until we embody the discoveries that result in becoming Better Selves, creating Better Lives and contributing to a Better World.
There are BIG RAMIFICATIONS for not SEARCHING and diligently working toward a Better Self, Better Life, and Better World.
- You’ll Keep Circling in the Same Level of Functioning.
- You’ll Experience Ongoing Frustration that Things Don’t Seem to be Changing.
- You’ll Stay Stuck either Blaming Others and Circumstances or Expecting Them to Change.
- You’ll Keep Chasing Easy Answers, Quick Fixes, and False Promises.
- You’ll Continue Feeling Destined to Endlessly Repeat What’s Not Working.
- You’ll Continue Struggling with Some of the Areas of Your Life, e.g., Health, Relationships, Work, Finances.
- You’ll Inadvertently Allow Poorly Functioning and Harmful People into Your Life.
- You’ll Keep Denying or Thwarting Your Potential.
- You’ll Miss Out on the Good, Meaningful, and Higher Stuff of Life that’s Trying to Find You.
There are BIG REWARDS for SEARCHING and diligently working toward a Better Self, Better Life, and Better World.
- You’ll Develop Better Awareness of Where You’re At and Why You’ve Been Struggling.
- You’ll Break Out of Vicious Cycles and Start Moving Forward Again.
- You’ll Learn How to, and Gain Confidence, in Making Changes in Yourself and Your Life.
- You’ll Come to Understand and Better Meet Your Primary Needs.
- You’ll Support the Slow Unfolding of Your Secondary Developments and Benefit from their Presence in Your Functioning.
- You’ll Resonate with Healthier Relationships and Circumstances.
- You’ll Incrementally Move into Living a More Intentional Life with Conscious Relating and Creating.
- You’ll Find Ways to Participate and Contribute to Making the World Better.
Searching with Soulchange
There was a time, a few decades ago, when the options for self directed information and support were incredibly limited.
Nowadays, post internet and social media, there is an incredible over abundance of available information.
So much so, that it can be overwhelming to determine what has care and compassion, validity and value, and appeal and application to us personally.
We must use ongoing discernment to determine what is worthy of our time, attention, energy, and effort because it will truly support us to become a Better Self, create a Better Life, and contribute to a Better World.
Here’s some of the main things about SEARCHING with SOULCHANGE.
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Your encouragement and inspiration has guided me towards a deeper understanding of myself and others. Thank you is not nearly enough for the gift you have given me… to discover and understand and to be who I am, and who I was meant to be. I was overcome that someone could reach in and read me so well. However, you may have done that- Thank you.
We understand the SEARCH and actively talk about the many known principles of growth, recovery, learning and transformation.
We use a well-developed but organic framework to support the SEARCH that outlines developmental scaffolding based on many different influences.
We rely on an intentional and informed approach that outlines how we want to show up and relate to ourselves and others as part of the SEARCH.
We pour into the SEARCH for better selves, better lives and support a better world based on a varied background and multiple fields of knowledge.
We share our SEARCH (as part of the blog) of growing, recovering, learning, and transforming including the falling down and getting back up.
We give forward by sharing some free content and we give back by donating some profits to the soulchange fund which supports trauma recovery.
Getting Started
Heroes aren’t usually born. At least I don’t think so.
They’re grown out of circumstances, through choices and right action over and over again. Just like REBEL SOULS.
Being a hero or a REBEL SOUL is not about what you’ve been through or even where you are now, although these things definitely shaped you and inform the story. It is about choosing growth and change (again and again and again) and moving through transformation toward becoming a Better Self, creating a Better Life and contributing to a Better world.
It’s about starting now, or continuing on, and moving forward.
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New and In the Works
We all need support as we grow and change.
The ideas and knowing of others can often show us the way, and usually shorten the path.
We’ve just launched and are working on a few new things to help with your journey toward becoming a Better Self, creating a Better Life, and contributing to a Better World.
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NEW: 5 Important Truths about Toxic Stress and Trauma- Downloadable
IN THE WORKS: Blog Post Series: Toxic Stress and Trauma
Blog Posts will be interspersed throughout 2026.